Vaginal Penetrative Intercourse (Vaginal Sex)

This refers to when a man’s reproductive organ, the penis, enters a woman’s vagina, engaging in penetrative sexual activity. Although vaginal sex is a common form of intercourse, not everyone chooses to include it as part of their sexual life. Some people enjoy it, while others may not like it at all. Therefore, it’s important to understand your own boundaries as well as your partner’s and reach a mutual agreement.

Oral Sex

Oral sex involves using your mouth (sucking or licking) to stimulate someone’s penis, vulva, or anus, or having your genitals stimulated by someone else’s mouth.

Not everyone wants to engage in or receive oral sex. Some people enjoy it, while others may not like it. Understanding and agreeing on each other’s boundaries is crucial.

Anal Sex

Anal sex involves a man’s reproductive organ entering his partner’s anus. Some people choose this method, but it doesn’t mean that everyone does, nor is it exclusive to gay men. Regardless of sexual orientation, some may enjoy anal sex. However, not everyone wants to engage in or receive it, and it’s important to discuss boundaries and reach an agreement with your partner.

Fingering

Fingering refers to inserting fingers into someone else’s vagina or anus. Like other forms of sexual activity, not everyone enjoys or wants this. Some may like it, while others may not. It’s important to establish boundaries and mutual agreement with your partner.

Masturbation

Masturbation involves using your hands, objects, or other methods (such as sex toys) to stimulate your own sexual organs, leading to sexual arousal or orgasm. This act gives sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Masturbation is not limited to adolescence—adults of all genders do it as well. It is a private activity, and you should not allow others to watch or force anyone to participate or assist you in the act.

Regardless of the type of sexual activity you may choose in the future, the most important thing is that you and your partner discuss a form of sexual activity that makes you both feel comfortable and free from pressure. If you feel uncomfortable before or during the act, you can change your mind and stop at any time.