by paadmin Communication and Intimacy Home / Communication and Intimacy Educational Resources F&Q He/She/they's story Nonviolent Communication Communicate with Parents Communicate with Friends Communicate with Your Partner Emotional Blackmail Breaking Up He Wants Me to Take the Pill 01 How can I find a boyfriend/girlfriend? You can meet new people by joining more activities, like hobby classes, volunteering, or even online. This will help you expand your social circle. Of course, meeting people face-to-face is even better because you can learn how to get along with different personalities and understand your own character better. Through this process, you’ll naturally find friends who are a good match for you. 02 Is it okay to keep changing boyfriends or girlfriends? Being in a relationship is just another life experience, so you don’t need to think of it as “right” or “wrong.” Instead, consider why you break up—is it because you’re looking for something new or trying to set a record for most partners? Or maybe after spending time together, you realize your lifestyles or personalities don’t match.After carefully thinking about the reasons for a breakup, the most important thing is to express them clearly to the other person. Take care of your own feelings, reflect on why the breakup happened, and aim for a happier relationship next time. 03 Why does being in a relationship affect my studies? Actually, being in a relationship doesn’t have to affect your studies. The key is learning to manage your time and balancing love with schoolwork. You can study and revise together, encouraging and supporting each other, which can improve both your studies and your relationship.Sometimes, being too focused on a relationship and spending all your time and energy on the other person can cause you to ignore other important parts of life, like your own feelings or friendships. This isn’t healthy. If you notice—or someone points out—that your grades are dropping, you should reflect on how you’re spending time with your partner and think about making adjustments. 04 If I don’t look good, will I never find a partner? While it’s true that good looks can catch someone’s attention at first, what matters most is what’s inside. If you had to choose, would you want to be with someone who’s really good-looking but has a bad temper or gets upset over little things? Probably not, because looks alone can’t keep a relationship healthy. The most important thing is to build confidence and a healthy attitude toward life. Respect and take responsibility for yourself and others, and that’s how you attract people who want to have a long and healthy relationship with you. 05 What should I do if a same-sex friend confesses their feelings to me? If someone likes you, it means they admire you, which is something to be happy about. There’s no need to feel troubled just because the person is the same gender. Whether it’s a boy or girl confessing their feelings, the important thing is to think about how you feel about them and whether you want to accept it. If you decide to say no, be clear about your feelings and decision without dragging it out. And when expressing yourself, make sure not to attack the other person personally. "Can we skip the condom, just for a few seconds?" Under Construction